Submissiveness in Marriage..part 1

This post was inspired by a video of Fantasia Taylor and her husband. https://www.instagram.com/tv/B2jnTO1H9dV/?hl=en As a person who enjoys thinking critically and who is keen on word etymology, what was stated was very disturbing. I asked myself….. Are women single because they don’t know their place and refuse to be led by a man? Are…

How to transcend H.U.R.T. to radiate unconditional love..

*Please listen to the audio in conjunction with this post* (And excuse my children in the background. But at least this shows I am human and I am not perfect. So I left it unedited/as is.) My acronym for hurt, H.U.R.T., stands for Harboring Unresolved and Residual Traumas. UNRESOLVED: (of a problem, question, or dispute)…

Challenge for LOVE day!!

Valentine’s Day…February 14th…is the western’s world day of LOVE..❤❤💜💜💚💚💛💛 Simple to just celebrate it, right? But I wouldn’t be ME if I didn’t throw a challenge out there to inspire free thought. And let me insert a disclaimer to make you all aware that no I am not a Valentine’s day Debby downer. I think…

Unconditional L.O.V.E vs. love with conditions….

Love with conditions is mostly what we have been accustomed to experiencing in this current reality…hence the creation of love with contracts. From infancy, some of us experience conditional love while in the womb from the sheer reality that our mother didn’t love herself unconditionally…We’re able to feel those emotions. And after entering into this…

What’s LOVE got to do with it?

I’m just going to jump right into this thing without an elaborate introduction or any of that. I’m convinced that this idea of “love” doesn’t exist in the way it has been universally projected…. This word “Love” needs to be taught in its proper context. It should be nationally recognized as a holiday/holy-day so that we…

Livin’ on a Prayer and unabridged LOVE!

This song played as we were making our way to Cartagena…. We called this trip our vacation while on a permanent vacation since leaving the U.S. and starting over in Colombia. This may seem like a song that would be indifferent for someone like me, but I found myself bobbing my head and singing along…