How to transcend H.U.R.T. to radiate unconditional love..


How many times have we heard the saying Hurt People Hurt People? It’s equivalent to 1+1=2. We comprehend it like it’s the easiest equation to remember. But, what many of us don’t realize is that we as humans are a factor in that hurt equation. At some point in our lives, we allow hurtful emotions…

The many different meanings of love


I’m convinced that this idea of “love” doesn’t exist in the way it has been universally projected. There are so many different meanings of love, how could anyone be sure if what they’re experiencing is the love that leads to commitment? Allow me to explain further. On one hand, we think love is about being…

What does monogamy mean in a relationship?


Monogamy is the practice of having a long term relationship with 1 person. Polygamy, as the root -poly- implies, is a relationship with multiple people. Polyandry is the practice of a woman having more than one husband. The most common form of polygamy is more specifically polygyny, a male having more than one wife. Polygyny…

How to transcend H.U.R.T. to radiate unconditional love..


*Please listen to the audio in conjunction with this post* (And excuse my children in the background. But at least this shows I am human and I am not perfect. So I left it unedited/as is.) My acronym for hurt, H.U.R.T., stands for Harboring Unresolved and Residual Traumas. UNRESOLVED: (of a problem, question, or dispute)…

Challenge for LOVE day!!


Valentine’s Day…February 14th…is the western’s world day of LOVE..❤❤💜💜💚💚💛💛 Simple to just celebrate it, right? But I wouldn’t be ME if I didn’t throw a challenge out there to inspire free thought. And let me insert a disclaimer to make you all aware that no I am not a Valentine’s day Debby downer. I think…

What’s LOVE got to do with it?


I’m just going to jump right into this thing without an elaborate introduction or any of that. I’m convinced that this idea of “love” doesn’t exist in the way it has been universally projected…. This word “Love” needs to be taught in its proper context. It should be nationally recognized as a holiday/holy-day so that we…

Livin’ on a Prayer and unabridged LOVE!


This song played as we were making our way to Cartagena…. We called this trip our vacation while on a permanent vacation since leaving the U.S. and starting over in Colombia. This may seem like a song that would be indifferent for someone like me, but I found myself bobbing my head and singing along…