We are in the year 2020, where 20/20 vision has brought us to some uncomfortable realizations about ourselves and the people who we have allowed in our space. The 20/20 wind has blown closets wide open and the true intentions of many have been exposed! Some of us have put a huge gap between ourselves and those whom we assumed would be in our lives forever, and it wasn’t because of COVID-19. COVID was just the precursor to this unveiling.
As we evolve, we consistently arrive at moments of shedding and renewal. For my journey, this has happened more often than I would like! Lol. But, it’s just a testament of how much we as humans fluctuate before we become attuned to our authentic self.
At times, I have to ask myself in connections (platonic or intimate)…Do they get me? And I’m not talking about the cloak that I wear for protection, but the ME underneath my skin…My Essence.
The power of seeing relations with 20/20 vision.
By taking the time to analyze certain connections, I discover 2 outcomes:
1. There are people connected for opportunity, for label sake, as attachment, or as egoic comparison.
2. And then there are people connected to us through our soul, our heart space, our authentic identity, and without any ulterior agendas.
I talk about this in greater detail in the blog post tagged below.
In summary, here is how I have discerned between the two.
People who are fixed on misunderstanding you will always ASSUME that you are lost on your journey. They will always be confused about what you are doing and how you are moving.
These type of people always require an explanation, but their ears are only open to RESPOND instead of comprehending. They will search high and low JUST to invalidate your experiences and make their own beliefs and reality more real. No matter how long the acquaintanceship lasts, there always seems to be friction, resistance, and quarrel. It feels empty.
Those who know your spirit, your kin, will always KNOW the real you and your intentions, without any skepticism. They will ask questions for clarity and to confirm their inner knowing.
The response to the question, “Do you get M.E.?,” is a symphonic ‘Yes’ that’s discerned through the heart and not with words. It feels euphoric. It’s less of a mind connection and more of a soul recognition.
My life was more chaotic when I dedicated so much time explaining myself or trying to MAKE people understand M.E. I found peace when I fully accepted that it’s not meant for every person on the planet to understand My Essence.
The more I detached and released my own chains to “friend” labels, I gained a greater reward by magnetizing my soul tribe. And I no longer had to explain who I AM.
Now I just exist.
My authenticity is my peace and my protection. You can waste a lifetime entertaining people who love you conditionally. Or you can have peace sharing your space with those who love you unconditionally.
The question that will set the course for connections that thrust you into expansion is simple…
Do you get M.E.?