Struggle love has been so widely accepted. Why not commit to HEALING in Love? Let’s talk about it!

Struggle love meaning Struggle love is defined as the kind of love that involves a person having to experience turmoil and dysfunction before they are finally valued and honored, usually 10 to 15 years into the relationship. In the African-American culture, struggle love has been seen as the ‘norm’, for the most part, for a…

Do you have a circle of Fiends or KINDred spirits?

In a previous post, I explained how I no longer desired friends in my life, because friENDships END. I desire kinships, because these type of relationships tend to resonate with the SO(u)L of M.E.(my essence..sol en espanol..my sun..my light…my inner G) and not the persona of me (my egoic self). In that post, I also…

Top 5 reasons why YOU can’t just LET THEM live their life..

As we all know, the month of June has many universally-recognized celebrations. There’s Father’s Day, Pride Month, Juneteenth, as well as personal birthdays, anniversaries, etc. All of these celebrations are joyous events! It’s all about the celebration of milestones and/or the recognition of influential human beings. But sometimes these celebrations trigger people on various levels….