This self love technique, the self-love pledge, has been THE ULTIMATE life changer for me in terms of my self-esteem and setting healthy boundaries in relationships.
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These affirmations for self love amd confidence are my #1 go-to whenever I need a boost of self-encouragment.
What is a self-love pledge?
A self-love pledge is a commitment, solemn promise, or vow to oneself. It is a vow to love oneself eternally, even at the expense of losing others.
This pledge is an affirmation that serves as a reminder that we are here on the planet to be ourselves. We are here to EXPRESS FREELY, hence the term Espiritu Libre, a Spanish term for Free Spirit.
This self love pledge serves as a reminder to NEVER allow yourself to drift into a situation that will involve you hiding or suppressing who you authentically are in order to fit into some group.
This pledge should prompt you to be FEARLESS in your identity and should boost your self-esteem significantly. As a young teen, it is even more important to exercise self-love to offset negative effects of bullying or peer pressure.
This affirmation will ooze through your aura as you come into contact with others. Your energy will magnetize those who welcome your liberalism and it will repel those who feel uncomfortable with your authenticity.
This self-love pledge is also a necessary affirmation, as stated in a previous post, prior to committing to any long-term relationship or marriage. In that post, I discuss how many young girls are prepped for marriage…prepped to sign a love contract with our lifelong partner. But, we often aren’t prepped to sign the love contract that should come before any other, which is the love contract with our self. In my opinion, it is THE MOST IMPORTANT love contract of our entire lives.
Repeat this self-love pledge daily, weekly, monthly, or whenever you feel you are being extremely critical of yourself, have self-doubt about your journey, of if you feel your confidence slipping away.
I solemnly swear or affirm…
That I AM an Espiritu Libre..
For the simple fact that I adamantly REFUSE to PARTICIPATE in anything that makes me feel constrained or subservient.
I will no longer ASSOCIATE myself with any organization that encourages me to be self-abasing or subordinate to another flawed human being.
I DECLINE ALL invitations that will result in me falsifying my intrinsic nature to force my larger than life essence into a box.
I WILL NO LONGER alter my identity to gain approval from substandard entities…
Because YOU (who are so occupied with being unloving to yourself) have failed to see the beauty in diversity, YOU will be dismissed like a production that has lost viewership.
Your subtle and covert criticisms have no space in my life.
Your insignificant words will now ricochet back onto your already broken figure and shatter you indefinitely.
I AM a beautifully, uniquely-made, unprecedented individual.
I will not apologize for my alluring attributes that exceed your comprehension.
YOU no longer have permission to hold me hostage to your projected insecurities.
I AM no longer honoring your perceptions…because I realize my aspirations surpass your radar.
Your fears will be rerouted onto a road that leads relentlessly back to you…you will EAT the words that you so boldly speak against my expedition.
Your cogitations serve no purpose for the passageway that I have been divinely escorted into.
Your chains have incapacitated…And I am setting my own self FREE!
I solemnly swear or affirm that I will BE EXACTLY what I came here to be.
This in no way serves to be an egotistical statement placing myself above any other human on this planet. This message serves as a reminder to us all that we must make a pledge to ourselves to be unapologetic in our intentions to live out our life purpose.
Some may not ever understand or even attempt to comprehend who you are..and that’s okay. Allow their conditional judgments to haunt them. YOU must face yourself in the mirror each day and be your own cheerleader. YOU must love yourself more than enough to surpass others’ expectations of who they thought you should be.
Walk with your head held high and your shoulders rolled back into the life that your soul is desperately seeking to live.
If you find that these affirmations inspire you, do humanity a favor and SHARE so that someone else can begin to shine bright and obliterate any ounce of low self-esteem or low self-worth they may have.
Share to your favorite social media site and send it to your bestie so that you both can radiate like the sun!
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